Well 2 of the hottest guys in work , one of whom has particularly amazing arms (I have a thing about arms which I'm sure I will go into at a later date) gave me the first set of advice.
Now I really thought I knew a thing or two about dating but evidently not. Men according to these 2 don't care about much else other than a bit of naughtiness.
Firstly the goodnight kiss, if he doesn't offer then I should say 'so do I get a goodnight kiss?' Now correct me if i'm wrong but am I not opening myself up to rejection by doing this? What if he says no, how embarrassing would that be!
Me - So then, how about a goodnight kiss?
Him - No chance love, on your bike!
Not sure about that one
Secondly if I 'put out' on the first date I'm guaranteed to see him again!
Now I thought that if I did the deed straight away men would lose all respect for me? So your comments please, is this the case or not?
I believe one of the descriptions from mr arms was "yep, do it straight away, with me no messing just out and out carnage"!!!
Personally that statement actually scares me a little, not sure carnage was on the agenda when I started thinking about moving on.
The following day some more advice from 2 other men in work, one of whom is my boss, total opposite, according to them I should defintely not even consider that on the first date. Also when deciding what to wear, black should be avoided as it's the colour you wear to a funeral!
More confusion.
So now I'm left with a total dilemma, who's right? Who's wrong? I'm hoping I will get some advice from you guys before the next date otherwise I could be in a tricky situation attempting to decide on my own.
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