It's all about me!

Why are men so small minded and shallow!!!!

I was meeting this guy for a few weeks, he seemed really keen, always asking for another date and to be honest I wasn't particularly fussed. He was a bit short, australian and kept saying 'crikey' and 'strewth' way to much but I thought I'd give him a chance as I keep finding faults in men and just needed to see how it went. Anyway after seeing him last night and him lining up not 1 but 2 further dates with me I then receive a text today saying he wasn't sure about seeing me again! Nice way to do it by the way, over text, nice and easy, the cowards way out - lovely!

Anyway when I asked why, the answer I received went along the lines of ' I don't mean this horribly, just being realistic. You have a kid! I don't want to take that on and need some time to think!'

Sorry ya flamin galah but you knew I had one before you even met me! Plus if you don't want to take that on what do you need to think about????? Tell you what decision taken away from you - SEE YA!!!!!!!!

I should have realised a single man, never married or anything at the age of 34 was single for a reason! Forget the shrimps, throw him on the flamin barbie!

I understand having a child is different from the old 'boy meets girl, boy kisses girl, boy and girl get married, boy and girl have babies' but we are in a modern day and age where it's not unusual to have a baby or a divorce under you belt by the time your 21!

I agree the Vicky Pollard stereotypical single mum does still exist but in a small minority of the single mum population. I am very proud of the fact I went back to work when my son was 4 weeks old and have worked full time ever since! I have a good job, have worked my way up and have my own money and my own place. I don't rely on handouts from anybody, I never have and I never will! I didn't enter this dating world to find a meal ticket or someone who will play dad to my son, I provide everything my son needs and wants and don't need a man to do this for me.

I entered the dating world for me and me only, I want someone to love me. This is the only selfish thing I ask, just to have somebody for me but no apparently that can't happen. If I have a child, automatically that means I don't work, I don't own anything of my own and think all men are just a cash machine!!!!!

Well wake up men and realise we are not living in a sexist world anymore where only man can earn money and women must stay home all day long! Not all single mums are out to fill their wardrobes or shoe rack on your wages!!!!! It's about time some of you realised that actually us single mums are different to the kappa tracksuit, breeding machine that is Vicky Pollard!!!!!