This time next week it will be 1 year to the day since my ex left me, and what a year it's been!! I have to say I truly thought my life was never going to get better, but as they say things have to get worse before they get better.
The first 8 months were the worst ever, some of the most horrible events happened, things I won't depress everyone with but needless to say the saddest few months of my life. Never again do I want to be hurt like that, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy (ok, actually I would wish that sort of pain and sadness on my worst enemy) but I wouldn't wish it on someone I simply just didn't like!
My ex continued to shock me, first he left me, 4 weeks later I discover through the wonder that is facebook he has got it on with the counter girl in his shop and then 2 months after that, they are having a baby! My ex being the biggest commitment phobe in the world made these lovely surprises even more shocking! But, and it wasn't easy by any stretch of the imagination, I can now say I'm over him!
Moving on to some of the worst dating disasters anyone has ever known! Who could forget 'the crew' I think I will be telling my grandkids about that one someday when they are looking for love advice. Granny Love Guru, that's what i'll be!
I know I have a couple of spots but I seriously did not think it would be that hard to meet someone normal! As I've said in some older posts when you stop looking for love it smacks you in the face when you least expect it.......
Now I haven't written about this one before, but I have met someone. It was on a night out with workmates from my previous job (big hello to Mr H if your reading this) and I very randomly decided to go on 'manhunt' with a complete stranger, but boy am I glad I did. This man has given me the happiest 11 weeks of this whole entire year! He's a gentleman, he's kind, he likes me for me and he makes me feel great!! Yes folks, you read it right 11 weeks!!!!!! Record!!! He's a little older than me, completely gorgeous and great arms! I've even changed my relationship status on facebook! Check me out!! That's all I am going to write about him for now......
I've just arrived home from a weekend in Butlins and whilst there I saw the other love of my life PETER ANDRE!!! What I would give to have a nibble on those arms!! He was completely amazing, brilliant and fantastic! He couldn't dance at all as he has been poorly but even without dancing he put on a superb show! Of course no concert is complete without the middle aged woman who gets a little too excited with the old sherry bottle and ends up causing a scene, she point blank refused to be removed from her seat so she ended up being dragged from it. I'm not sure but I think she might have even punched someone, the corner of the crowd she was in cheered very loudly when she was taken out, if that was my mum I would have disowned her there and then! Never mind 'call the doctor' call a bloody lawyer to arrange divorcing your parents!!!
I suppose the reason I chucked the Team Andre experience in this post was to show that I have been having fun, something I didn't think I'd ever have again. But I've pushed myself to do things I didn't do before, weekends away to watch gorgeous Pete, last weekend I was in Brighton with my gorgeous friends and all our gorgeous children. I have action packed weekends right up til New Year and can honestly say I am loving life right now.
Fingers crossed I am still saying this in the next post..........
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