Friends with Benefits! Yes or No?????

I may not be able to find a permanent man but I certainly get lots of offers from 'friends' who are more than willing to provide a service should I need it!

So is it a good thing or not to have this? Is it not a well known fact that woman are not able to have 'no strings attached fun' without getting emotionally involved and turning into some sort of bunny boiling, don't touch him girls he's mine stalker???

I think that a girl might be able to just have a friend with benefits as long as there is no real attraction there. For example, if I tried this with someone who I completely adored and practised writing my signature using their surname it's likely I would be devastated when he didn't realise I was his one true love, so I think that would be best avoided. But if I took the man's attitude of 'it's just a quick one' and didn't really fancy the bloke then surely I can satisfy a need and it's ok to do this???

Men do this and people pat him on the back and say well done, women do this and people say 'you slaaaaaaaag'.

I think it's completely wrong that women get treated in this way so guess what girls - I'm going to get me a friend!!!! I'm not going to be greedy, one friend will do, so you get all the fun but without all the hassle.

So the lucky fella is........Mr long time ago crush, yet still very hot man !!! Ok I know the name needs work but it's really difficult trying to think of a mysteriously cool name for each man I write about on here!!!

The man in question is a previous work colleague who I don't think has smiled once in the 8 years since I met him. I used to have quite a crush on him, he's very hot but was never interested, however he has now realised the error of his ways and is more than willing to please (on a purely fun basis of course).

Perhaps now I won't be looking, Mr Right will come and find me. So forget looking for love ladies and let the games begin............